Love is something everybody needs and doesnat know what it really means without knowing the love of God. For in Him only is there real love. And we canat even begin to understand or fathom what love really means without Him. We look for it in all the wrong places. But we will never find it there. Itas not in mankind; itas not in anything in this world the way we perceive it. Until we realize that it only comes from God, we will only find hurt and pain and misery. Believe me, I know, there are lots of Christians still looking for love in the wrong places. Itas sad to say. And we are being destroyed and donat understand why. So, we think God has let us down and we blame Him for our depression, hurt, and pain. We wonder why the Lord doesnat help us. But what we donat realize is that God is helping us, even though we donat know it. You see, the devil is fooling us. He is taking our focus off Jesus and putting it on people and things, so we canat be all that God has for us to be. The failure is not in God, itas in us. You may say, aI gave him or her all the love I had and he or she betrayed me. How could they do me like that?a But what we fail to realize is that God is our first love and we must receive His love and give Him our love first. John 10:10 says, aThe thief comes to kill, steal and destroy.a And that is what he has been doing. But you donat have to let him get away with it. Jesus came that we might have life and more abundantly. Otherwise, Jesus is life in every area of our lives if we let him. We need to ask Him to lead and guide us in all things. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, atrust in the Lord with all thine heart, lean not unto thine own understanding, in all they ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy path.a So the failure is not in God, itas in us for not seeking Godas help. Believe me, I know; been there, done that. I gave all I had to give to the wrong men, yes, men. I say men because I kept trying to please them so they would love me. But it didnat work. They betrayed me, jumped on me, and stepped on me like a floor mat that said aWelcome.a I know how it feels to be dogged out for love, or so-called love. It sucks! As we receive Godas love, then and only then will we know what love is really about. Itas not a fancy or fairy tale. Godas love is divine. He is not looking at your faults; He is looking at your needs. Manas love, so-called love, that is, is cold, taking, and not wanting to give. They lie, they cheat, they take away our pride and self-esteem, they pull us down, and then they have the nerve to tell us itas our fault that they treat us the way they do. The devil is a liar. The devil wants us to believe that we have to take all kinds of abuse; that is just the way it is. But the devil is a liar. We donat need that kind of man, because you see, heas not a real man anyway. Heas just something wearing a pair of pants. Remember, we can make it just us and God. God will bring us through. But we must learn to trust Him. I have been through hell and high waters. Iave been a floor mat, a punching bag. Iave been stressed out; I have even tried to take my life a few times when I was younger. But I thank God that He said, aYou shall live and not die.a Satan was trying to take me out to stop me. Now I know what it is to be dogged out and kicked to the curb. I know how it feels to be turned inside out, not knowing if you are coming or going, not knowing what to do next. For some so-called love. As far as I am concerned, they can keep it. I donat need it and neither do you. Why take less when we can have the best? God did not make woman to be a manas floor mat. He made us to be his helpmate. But we canat help someone if they donat want to take it.This, however, becomes a stumbling block especially when the leadership of teens is determined by church adult members who dona#39;t even know whether this leader will be able to connect with teens at the level the youth themselves would anbsp;...
|Title||:||Dogged Out For Love|
|Publisher||:||Author House - 2006-03-29|